What was the hardest personal goal you’ve set for yourself?
I want to live in the present and in each moment of my life .
But it’s easier said than done.
I tend to look back in my life and miss all the people who have passed away from this world. My parents especially. My beautiful memories with my parents should get a smile on my face but they take me back in an abyss of grief .

I tend to look back at all the mistakes,blunders I have made and instead of acknowledging that mistakes are a fact of life , they pull me back and make me very cautious and wary when it comes to taking chances.
I tend to hold on to things which are best to let go, not realising ‘what is not meant to be will never be’.

I tend to be overwrought, hyper, emotional in my reactions when criticized instead of taking a cool view and being thick skinned .

I tend to be very impatient and snappy with morons ( of course I am the biggest moron š ) instead of following the mantra of ignoring and avoiding them.
I tend to be very high and mighty and hoity – toity turning up my nose on my high horses instead of being grounded and balanced.

Such a long and difficult list , I have set šš
Help me and support me, my dear friends in attaining these goals.
I’m reading the subtle art of not giving a fuck and he has some really good tips on how to change your perspective on what may be perceived as mistakes. Start with your values and try to figure out how you can make more grounded decisions based on what you value, rather than social status or what others perceive as worthy. Maybe you are already making decisions this way, try to figure out how your mistakes could actually be valued based decisions. š
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This seems logical and rational. š
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True..easier said than done
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True this š„¹
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we often do dwell upon the past I myself am guilty of it. So I do the best I can and try to stay focused on what lies ahead,. keep your hope and dreams alive.
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True this. š
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